Community Book Read: I Am Not Sick, I Don’t Need Help by Xavier Amador, PhD

Someone's loved one won't take their medication. Someone else's family member insists nothing is wrong — even as everything falls apart around them. And a room full of people in Bartholomew County are learning there's a name for that: anosognosia.

On Wednesday, March 11, community members gathered for a book read and discussion of Xavier Amador's I Am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help, a book that tackles one of the most misunderstood aspects of serious mental illness — the neurological inability to recognize one's own condition. Anosognosia isn't denial. It isn't stubbornness. It's a symptom of the illness itself, and understanding it can change the way families, friends, and caregivers approach the people they love.

A Room That Looked Like the Whole Community

What made this particular gathering stand out was who showed up. Healthcare professionals sat alongside parents. Educators joined family members. People from all age groups and backgrounds came together — not as experts talking at an audience, but as neighbors working through the same hard questions.

As one organizer described it, the session was "an example of the happenstance of regular people gathering." That mix is exactly what the book calls for. Amador wrote I Am Not Sick, I Don't Need Help not just for clinicians, but for everyday people navigating impossible situations — the mother trying to convince her adult son to stay on his treatment plan, the spouse watching someone they love refuse care, the friend who doesn't know what to say.

From Nine Sessions to a Community-Wide Conversation

This book read didn't start as a single event. Organizers originally planned nine separate discussion groups held at various times and locations across the community, designed to meet people where they were and draw the widest possible response. The March 11 session brought those threads together into a broader conversation — one where the diversity of perspectives in the room reflected the diversity of people affected by mental illness.

That's the point. Mental health is everyone's concern. It touches every family, every age group, every profession. When the room reflects that reality, the conversation gets richer and more honest.

What Readers Are Taking Away

Amador's book gives families and caregivers concrete communication strategies — ways to connect with a loved one who doesn't believe they're sick, without resorting to arguments or ultimatums that tend to push people further away. For many in the room, simply having language for what they've been experiencing was a relief. Knowing that anosognosia is a recognized neurological condition — not a character flaw — reframes years of frustration and heartbreak.

Thank You to the People Who Made This Happen

This book read came together because Julie Orben, who coordinates Mental Health Matters community activities through Columbus Regional Health, partnered with NAMI South Central (Jackson and Bartholomew Counties) local leadership — Debbie Teike, Janice Montgomery, and Karen Nissen — to identify locations, recruit discussion leaders, and build a format that welcomed everyone. Their combined effort turned a clinical topic into an accessible community conversation.

Keep Reading, Keep Talking

The community book read series continues to offer Bartholomew County residents a space to learn about mental health together — no clinical background required. If you missed this session or want to explore more resources on anosognosia and supporting a loved one with mental illness, visit mhmbc.crediblemind.com to browse over 16,000 free, confidential, expert-vetted tools. And follow @mhmbartholomew to stay connected to upcoming events.

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